Mastering Resilience: Turning Stress into Strength
What is Resilience?
Re·sil·ience / rəˈzilyəns / noun The capacity to recover quickly from difficulties; toughness.
Our nervous system is a built-in bodyguard, always on the lookout for threats. Unfortunately, it can’t tell the difference between an overdue email and a tiger on the prowl. Both trigger stress responses designed to help us either fight or flee. In our modern world, stress is sneakier and more persistent, often leading us to dodge it rather than deal with it head-on.
The Modern-Day Stress Mess
Today, stress doesn’t come from wild predators but from our everyday lives. We dodge these stress-induced feelings through distractions, overworking, and sometimes, gossiping. This avoidance might save us momentarily, but in the long run, it builds up, wreaking havoc on our bodies and minds.
The Cost of Dodging Stress
When life throws one stressor after another at us, plus the nagging background stress, and the relentless "Grind Mentality," we end up with incomplete stress cycles. Our bodies don’t get the memo to switch back to "rest and digest" mode. The result? A nervous system stuck in overdrive, leaving us less resilient and more prone to chronic tension, inflammation, and illness.
Fight-or-Flight: The Stress Response
Feeling threatened? Your body floods with stress hormones, cranking up your heart rate and blood pressure, and sharpening your senses. Energy is rerouted from non-essential systems (like digestion) to power your escape or defense. But if we don’t let our bodies recover from this state, unresolved stress accumulates, turning into chronic issues.
Avoidance Lowers Resilience
Cultural norms often push us to ignore or distract ourselves from emotional discomfort. This practice, while seemingly helpful, chips away at our resilience, making it harder to bounce back from stress.
Building Resilience: A Mental Workout
Think of building resilience like strength training. The barbell is your stress response. Avoiding it means you never get comfortable handling it. Remember your first back squat? It probably wasn't with a heavyweight. Just like that, start with light to moderate stress. Allow yourself to feel the discomfort without overwhelming your system. With practice, you’ll handle heavier stressors with more ease.
The Art of Emotional Strength
Resilience grows when you challenge yourself emotionally, learning to cope with various uncomfortable emotions. Regular practice is key and a critical skill for regulating your nervous system.
Resilience: A Learned Skill
Developing resilience means learning to notice, trust and act on the signals your body is sending you. This will allow you to learn to manage a broader range of sensations without slipping into fight-flight-freeze mode. This keeps you from overreacting or shutting down under pressure, whether at work, the gym, or in your personal life. This month our mental health PDF workbook is all about noticing our emotional states, where they are located in our body and what physical sensations are present with these emotions, this is an incredible 3-5 minute practice that you can easily incorporate into your daily routine that will bring regulation to your system.
Practice Makes Perfect
Body-based movement practices help you stay present and attuned to your body's sensations as you move, stretch, and challenge your muscles. Mobility and stretching routines can be an excellent starting point for those seeking more regulation in their lives. MVMNT is the only mobility membership that integrates nervous system regulation into its routines and we offer a monthly mental health workbook to support both body and mind.
By integrating easy-to-follow stretching routines and completing a three-minute journaling exercise into your routine, you'll strengthen your resilience, much like building muscles at the gym. Remember, stress is like a barbell – with consistent effort, you’ll master lifting it with ease.
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